Via David
More power to them.
In a trash-talking, reality-show culture that rewards bad behavior
and self-promoting arrogance, quiet gentlemen have largely become quaint
rarities, charming but outmoded relics of generations past. The news
today is dominated by bullying presidential candidates, and the
entertainment arena is ruled by
foul-mouthed superheroes;
unless young boys are taught gentlemanly standards by the males in
their lives at home and in their neighborhood, they will be hard-pressed
to find role models for them elsewhere in our culture.
Raymond Nelson, the student support specialist at Memminger
Elementary in downtown Charleston, South Carolina, isn’t waiting around
for our broken culture to right itself. He works with at-risk children,
many of whom come from broken homes with no father figure. Grim
statistics bear out what a devastating effect fatherlessness has on
boys, who are then more inclined to turn to crime, to take drugs, to
drop out of school, and to perpetuate this cycle of failure one day with
broken families involving their own children.