I beg the reader's indulgence since this is in a large sense a personal communication more than a column for all. It will resonate with many, or some, so I post it anyway.
I am preparing to fly to Fredericksburg,
Virginia, for the—God almighty—fifty-year high-school reunion of King
George High School. Perhaps we all do it eventually, unless of course we
don’t. It is a curious thing, I have learned at previous reunions, to
meet after half a century people you last saw when they were seventeen.
They seem so little changed.
We, largely rural kids of the small-town South, represented without knowing it a culture, an approach to existence, and a devastating principle: You can’t impose decency, honesty, good behavior, or responsibility. They are in the culture, or they are not. If they are, you don't need laws, police, and supervision. If they are not, laws won't much help. And this is why the US is over, at least as the country we knew.
More @ Fred On Everything
I love reading and listening to someone reminisce. My mom did just that last night reminiscing about riding her and her best friend riding their bicycles back in 1937 from their little country town to London, Ontario- almost 90 miles one way. No fear about cars or kidnappers - just a wonderful time for these young teenage girls.
ReplyDelete90 miles on a bike: Not me. :)
ReplyDeleteI wonder if they knew what they were doing and how long it would take them- I wouldn't either at any age.
ReplyDeleteThat reminds me of my law-breaking day back in 1964 when I was a junior in high school -- no one got hurt and no property was vandalized because that was just not done - my boyfriend and his friend along with one of my girlfriends and I "broke" into the high school one summer night and went swimming in the pool - I can't remember how we got in, but it had something to do with underground tunnels that were not secured. And we were the "smart & good" kids - Hah! ;)
ReplyDeleteBad, bad girl, I'm telling your parents.......:)
DeleteI wonder what my mom would say if I told her - I am seeing her this weekend, so I might just check out her reaction. She would probably laugh - my dad is dead now, but he seemed to be such a straight arrow. Is there any such thing in the human realm?
ReplyDeleteI wonder what my mom would say if I told her - I am seeing her this weekend, so I might just check out her reaction. She would probably laugh
DeletePlease do and that's great that you see her so often.
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- my dad is dead now, but he seemed to be such a straight arrow. Is there any such thing in the human realm?
Not these days, I'm afraid. Back in the Dark Ages, as my mother would say, :) yes.