Every one of us needs to have a "What if I am detained Plan". That is due to the normal pace of events. They call you a Terrorist, They arrest you under the Patriot Act. They take your kids to Child protective services. Then they negotiate a testimony out of your wife to get her kids back. You may bring home the bacon, but you will never compete with the kids for her actions.
We all have Bug out plans, but what about if some local cop arrests you and carries you to the Hoosegow. Then he calls DHS and you are on some list.
No plans, no rights, no testify. Just Jail, ass Beating, and gone.
Time to do your planning now.
The wife needs to know that when she hears you are taken that she needs to get the kids, the bags, and beat feet. Where is the question. Her mom's house is not any where on the lists. They know that address and she would not want her folks killed by a swat team.
Think on this!
Time is short!